Parenting Adolescents Home PageThe Parent and Teen Polls are run continuously at this site and results are posted quarterly. Both parents and teens/preteens can vote for "issues" as well as for "areas of appreciation" in their relationships.

 

Bar Chart of Poll Results

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 Interpreting the chart:

Main finding:
When parents were asked to vote for their 'top 3' issues in raising their teens/preteens, the issue "bad attitude-lack of respect" was the one most voted for, on average. "Academic problems" and "chores" came in as the second and third, so these are the TOP 3 ISSUES among parents of teens/preteens responding to this poll.

"Mood swings" and "wants to be too independent" were the fourth and fifth issues most-voted-for.

See the results of the "Good Stuff" poll--the areas parents are happiest with in their relationships with their teens/preteens.

For a list of all the issues parents could select from, see the Poll.

Compare results this quarter with prior quarter's results.

More.... on this chart of poll results.

See Results of TEEN POLL.

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Interpreting the colored bars:

blue squareAll Respondents:
this bar shows what proportion of the total number of votes cast by poll respondents went to a particular issue as one of the "top 3" in parenting teens & preteens

red squarevotes by MOTHERS:
this bar shows what proportion of the total number of votes cast by mothers went to a particular issue (as one of the 'top 3' in parenting teens/preteens)

lime squarevotes by FATHERS:
this bar shows what proportion of the total number of votes cast by FATHERS went to a particular issue (as one of the 'top 3' in parenting teens/preteens)

yellow squarevotes by STEPPARENTS/other caregivers
this bar shows what proportion of the total number of votes cast by STEPPARENTS AND OTHER CAREGIVERS went to a particular issue (as one of the 'top 3' in parenting teens/preteens)

Caregiver differences:
The chart shows that mothers and fathers responding to this poll exhibited some differences when voting for the 'top 3' issues in parenting teens and preteens:

Mothers were somewhat more concerned than fathers about "bad attitude/lack of respect" and about "mood swings" in their teen/preteen children, and slightly more concerned than fathers about "chores." Mothers' and fathers' votes were, proportionally, very nearly the same on "academic problems" and "wants to be too independent" as 'top 3' issues in parenting.

Stepparents and other caregivers (mostly it was stepparents who responded in this category) showed significant differences from the other mothers and fathers in that they more often chose "academic problems," proportionally, as among the 'top 3' parenting issues. Stepparents/other caregivers also as a group more often proportionally chose "wants to be too independent" as a 'top 3' issue, and less often chose the remaining issues, "bad attitude/lack of respect," "mood swings," and "chores" as among their 'top 3' issues.

  • Results of Parent Poll of "The Good Stuff"--
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    Find out what parents choose as the 'Top 3' Areas of Enjoyment of Teen/Preteens]

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Parenting Adolescents Home PageThe Parent and Teen Polls are run continuously at this site and results are posted quarterly. Both parents and teens/preteens can vote for "issues" as well as for "areas of appreciation" in their relationships.

 

Bar Chart of 'Top 3' "Good Stuff" Areas in Parent/Teen Relationships

The choices: activity shared, activity of teen/preteen, discussions, difficulties overcome, achievements of teen/preteen, new learning brought by teen/preteen, excitement at development toward adulthood, respect/admiration for me, morals demonstrated by teen/preteen, physical attributes of teen/preteen, and 'other.'

 Interpreting the chart:

Main finding:
When parents were asked to vote for the 'top 3' areas they were happiest with in their relationships with their teens/preteens, "discussions we have" was the one most voted for, on average. "Excitement at seeing development toward adulthood" and "achievements by teen/preteen" came in as the second and third most popular areas, so these are the TOP 3 AREAS OF APPRECIATION in the parent-teen/ parent-preteen relationship for parents responding to this poll.

"Morals demonstrated by teen/preteen" came in fourth.

(See the list of all the areas parents could select from.)

This past quarter is the first time that Parenting Adolescents has offered a poll of areas of relationship with teens/preteens appreciated by their parents, so there are no "prior quarter" results to compare with!

See the results of the "Issues in Parenting" poll--the issues parents choose as their 'top 3' in parenting their teens/preteens.

Results of TEEN POLL.

Interpreting the colored bars:

brown boxAll Respondents:
this bar shows what proportion of the total number of votes cast by poll respondents went to a particular area as one of the "top 3" areas of appreciation in the parent-teen/parent-preteen relationship

pink box*votes by parents of GIRLS:
this bar shows what proportion of the total number of votes cast by parents of girls went to a particular area (as one of the "top 3" areas of appreciation in the parent-teen/parent-preteen relationship)

aqua box*votes by parents of BOYS:
this bar shows what proportion of the total number of votes cast by parents of boys went to a particular area (as one of the "top 3" areas of appreciation in the parent-teen/parent-preteen relationship)

lime box votes by parents of PRETEENS:
this bar shows what proportion of the total number of votes cast by parents of PRETEENS went to a particular area (as one of the "top 3" areas of appreciation in the parent-preteen relationship)

yellow squarevotes by parents of TEENS:
this bar shows what proportion of the total number of votes cast by parents of teens went to a particular area (as one of the "top 3" areas of appreciation in the parent-teen relationship)

Gender and Teen/Preteen Differences:
The chart shows that votes by *parents of girls and the overall average for all respondents are pretty much the same across all the leading areas of appreciation.

*Parents of boys and parents of girls showed some differences across the first three areas: "discussions," "excitement at seeing development toward adulthood," and "achievements," with parents of boys consistently more appreciative of these areas, proportionally, than parents of girls. [However, gender differences in this poll need to be taken with 'a grain of salt,' since for a month the poll form at this web site allowed parents only to indicate that their teen/preteen was a girl. Estimates of numbers of girl/boy votes were therefore adjusted but represent only approximations to what might have been the actual votes cast by parents in each category, had there not been this 'glitch' in the system.]

Parents of teens and parents of preteens also cast somewhat significantly different votes, proportionally, in the areas called "excitement at seeing development toward adulthood" and "moral development." It is perhaps not surprising that parents of more teens than preteens indicated these as areas of appreciation in their relationships, as the teens would have progressed further in these areas by virtue of relative age.

*gender differences in this poll need to be taken with 'a grain of salt,' since for a month the poll form at this web site allowed parents only to indicate that their teen/preteen was a girl. Estimates of numbers of girl/boy votes were therefore adjusted but represent only approximations to what might have been the actual votes cast by parents in each category, had there not been this 'glitch' in the system.

Results of TEEN POLL.

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